Haters, Haters, Everywhere; Time Being Wasted with No Time to Spare

“Sometimes, people wanna tear you down. Keep in mind that it is because they want to be like you and you are so far ahead of them that to knock you down would be the only way for them to catch up to you.”

~Author Unknown 

It always amazes me how the more successful a person gets, especially when they come from a tough and struggling background, the harder people go out of their way to tear them down.  Last night I was on the phone with Ms. L. told and she told me the news about the four-alarm fire that broke out at Tyler Perry Studios inAtlanta,GA.  

Then she read the ignorant and disgraceful comments that people were tweeting in response to the news about the fire.  A lot of the comments were joking about his building being on a fire and other personal jabs that just weren’t funny and aren’t even worth me restating them.  

It just made me remember how hateful and jealous people can be.  It doesn’t happen all the time but too often when someone rises from their bad circumstances and makes something out of themselves, reaching a level of success that other people only imagine (unless you’re one of those people who goes beyond imagining and takes action) themselves getting to, people just get so jealous and downright mean. 

I suppose that one could take into consideration the saying that the more haters that you have the more that you know you are doing something right.  But I just really wish that it wouldn’t have to be that way.  I wish that we didn’t have to find a way to look at people’s negative attitudes and spin them around to be something positive for us.  

We are supposed to celebrate people’s successes, their rise from the struggles they had to overcome to get to the point they are at.  We are supposed to be joyous for others when they succeed and not find ways to keep tearing them down in hopes that they fail.  If people are so busy begrudging someone else the destiny that is due to them, it is no mystery why those same people have such a harder time than others achieving the goals and dreams that they strive for.  

We are supposed to help lift people up instead of pulling them down just because we might not like where we are at that very moment.  I am thankful that no one was hurt in that fire.  I am also hopeful that Tyler Perry gets everything repaired fairly quickly and without delay.  Not just because I think that he is a brilliantly creative being.  Not even because there are so many positive messages that I get from watching his films.  

But mostly because the good that he has done with his work, the success that he has achieved in which others are so hatefully envious of, is what allows him to employ 5 thousand or more people who need his success to continue.  It is also the same thing that fuels him to help pull others up the ladder in their efforts to become successful.  

Successful people help other people become successful too and if the haters looked at it in those terms then maybe they could learn something and maybe they could get to wherever it is they are trying to go.  Time hating others success is only time that you spend wasting on the climb up to yours. 

Jimmetta Carpenter

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  1. These words are so true of us as people. One of my favorite stanzas in the song They’ll Know We are Christians by Our Love is, “We will work with each other, we will work side by side
    We will work with each other, we will work side by side
    And we’ll guard each one’s dignity and save each one’s pride
    And they’ll know we are Christians by our love, by our love
    They will know we are Christians by our love” by Carolyn Arends. We need to hear lyrics like these more often, because even Christians can be mean and full of jealousy. Two nights back I watched the movie Amadeus and how the one Italian composer was so jealous of Mozart. I saw the movie as a kid, but it’s not an easy movie to watch, so I didn’t appreciate it back then.


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